Your life can be quite different only if you learn to make more positive decisions but this can only happen once you fully realize the power of your decisions.
Each and every action we take in life, whether good or bad, stems out of a moment when we sit down, take a deep breath and make a decision. The good and bad things that happen in our life are a direct consequence of the decisions we make. Instead of shifting blame for our wrong decisions on destiny we should try and take precautionary measures to avoid making a bad decision.
It is hardly a coincidence that good decision makers have plenty of friends who also possess a strong ability to make the right decision. They like to consult their friends and loved ones whenever they stand at crossroads in their lives and you should do the same. Take for instance a car driver who has lost his way and has no clue which way to turn, should he make a wild guess or simply pull over to ask directions from a passerby? Any sensible person will take the latter option. Having good people close by to ask for advice in tough times is essential, and you should make friends with positive people if you want to become a positive person yourself.
There is no denying the fact that unless you become a positive person you will end up being a negative person. Your decisions have power beyond your imagination and bad decision making can end up leaving a horrible impact on your life and others. It is your decisions that lead you to the path that Adolf Hitler chose or the way Sir Alexander Fleming adopted in life. In the end, one positive decision adds up to another and turns you into a truly positive person who takes each and every turn in life with confidence, enthusiasm and patience.